One of the issues that arises for people as they grieve is the subject of closure. Some well-meaning persons in our society (that may include some family members and friends) would have us bring the process of grieving to a close at some point along the journey of grief. They are yearning to see and relate to the “old us”- the one who is socially engaged, ever ready to reach out and help others, etc. The changes that grief effects upon a person doesn’t necessarily let that happen. The “old us” becomes a “new us” with values and life goals that have been re-processed and re-prioritized to create a “new normal” state of being.